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Let us go straight to the point to all these small talks and focus on
the question that slices into the very hub of man’s survival.
Bad boys or nice guys?
This is truly a matter of personality choice. Each has its own crowd of
admirers, where every woman is ready to defend their dearly beloved partners.
However, the debates seemed to never cease. This is because women never
have clear distinction as to what type of mate would they rather prefer.
And after a long scurrilous deliberation and poll voting, it seems that
the choice between bad boys and nice guys are endless discussions.
Sounds impossible? Read on.
According to survey polls online, nearly 30% of the women respondents have
stated that the personality matters most. Though, it was not clearly identified
what kind of personality that these women would want from the guys.
But there are some reports that the nice guys are apparently unappealing
to most women. Why is this so? What could possibly cause this evident weakening
magnet of the nice guys? Does that account for the reason why more men
are “behaving badly” these days?
There are so many speculations why these things happen. But there are just
as many instances that could attest that women seem to like bad boys rather
than the nice guys. For instance, there are those cases wherein the more
a nice guy gets “nicer” to women; the more they will not opt
to be romantically involve with those guys. Instead, they outwardly become
attracted to men who deal with them harshly.
However, this does not necessarily mean that women would literally choose
bad boys, as in the really mean ones, over the nice guys. The only reason
why some women opt to date those who are not under the category of nice
guys is that the nice ones create an impression of not being romantic.
They appear to be less appealing as far as sexual attraction is concerned.
In fact, some women contend that those who are really nice seem to offer
friendship instead of romance. So what is the point of being romantically
involved with them if this is what women think of them?
The point here is that women do not literally prefer bad boys that are
really bad as in those who commit crimes or whatsoever. They just have
the tendency to be physically attracted to men who treat them a little
harsh, those who do not pay attention to them, those who seem not to care
for them, and those who do not give them 100% attention.
These are all boiled down to the fact that women are actually adventurous
people. They would rather love men who start taking actions instead of
trying to act “nice.”
Moreover, in order to understand why women are more physically attracted
to the bad-boy image is to focus on the very core of attraction. It is
merely based on attraction that women are paying more attention to the
nasty ones. But this does not necessarily mean that women would prefer
to have bad boys as their lifetime partner rather than the nice guys.
In fact, according to some recent surveys, almost 38% of women that were
included in the respondents would still prefer nice guys, while only 15%
want the bad ones. Consequently, nearly 34% would rather have a combination
of both personalities.
So what do these figures show? It just means that women are still not insane
who would literally choose the bad guys. They are only attracted to those
who seem to carry a bad boy image but for a more serious relationship,
the nice guys, or a combination of both personalities are much preferred.
Given all that, the choice between the two kinds of personality is not
a matter of who is the most preferred type of guy, rather, it is a matter
of attraction. As long as the nice guys have what it takes to attract women,
chances are they would be able to date women.
The bottom line is that women can be very fussy and may not make sense
whenever they choose the kind of guy they would be interested in. In fact,
they can go from one type to another type in just a short span.
But what makes women fall in love deeply is to have a personality that
is not so straight and, yet, not that crooked. This pertains to those who
are funny, confident, and has an air of mystery on the side.
After all, who would rather choose a boring man whom women were supposed
to live with for the rest of their lives? Certainly not those-goody-two-shoes,
right?
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