Filippo DiStefano's
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It happens quite often, but only for an instance. You’re in the subway, at a coffee shop, in a bookstore or in the supermarket and then you see her. A fine piece you wouldn’t mind dipping your meat stick -and possibly even your balls- in. But if you don’t make a move, you’ll never even know if you had a chance.
Ideally, you exchange gazes. Look at her and observe her response. A smile is always good. And if you catch her looking at you first, you’ve been cued to go in for the kill.
But how? You’ll likely feel nervous. You might not know what to say. And you don’t have much time to think. But relax, it’s OK, a simple line will make it easy:
Go up to her after having already established eye contact at some point. However, make sure you blind side her. Catch her unprepared, off guard, while her defenses are down. Surprise her.
And then kindly tell her something along these lines:
“Hey listen, I couldn’t help but notice you and since I may likely never see you again, I must take this opportunity to ask you for a chance to get to know you. Would I be out of line if I asked you to get a cup of coffee? Something simple…don’t say no.”
The line is both kind, smooth,
emotional (”I may never see you again”)
and it sublty commands her to accept (”don’t say no”).
It works like a charm if the inital eye contact was there. Try it. It may
very well get you through a door that was otherwise closed.
