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Premature ejaculation
is embarrassing for the man and no fun for the woman. If you're having
a bit of a problem going for the long run, here are 7 tips that will help.
Relax
Premature ejaculation often results from performance anxiety. Try oral
sex, toys, fingers, and passionate kissing to build her passion. If she's
sufficiently excited before intercourse she won’t need as much time
to reach orgasm.
Take care of yourself beforehand
Premature ejaculation sometimes occurs because guys are too fired up. The
slightest bit of action sets them off a bit too soon. Relieve some pressure
by masturbating before the big event. Not right before because getting
erect immediately afterwards might be difficult. A few hours before should
do the trick.
Wear a condom
Decreasing sensitivity helps prevent premature ejaculation. One way to
make the penis less sensitive is to cover it with a rubber. They're also
good for protecting against STDs and unwanted pregnancy, so why not let
a rubber help with premature ejaculation, too. Never put on more than one
at a time thinking that thicker is better. It’s not.
Other desensitizing products
Specially-formulated creams containing topical anesthetics can help numb
the penis and put premature ejaculation suffers at ease. Be careful though.
Don’t accidentally numb your partner without her permission! Once
the penis numbs, wash the cream off. Another option is to cover the cream
with a condom. Just be sure the cream doesn’t contain ingredients
that will cause the condom to weaken or break.
Think about something else
Careful with this one! If you think of the wrong thing, premature ejaculation
may end up being one of several problems. Self-inflicting pain on another
body part, memorizing mathematical equations, or creating images of unattractive
women have helped some guys, but results do vary.
Steer clear of alcohol and drugs
Tuning in to your body and feelings can help you control premature ejaculation.
When you’re in an altered state of mind, tuning in becomes difficult.
Do your homework
Several techniques have been developed that help men control the timing
of their ejaculations. Mastering techniques such as the “pinch” method,
or the “start-stop” method help men identify and focus on the
moments that precede the “point of no return.”
Don’t give up on sex! These techniques and others have helped many
men overcome the embarrassing and frustrating condition called premature
ejaculation.
About the Author:
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